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Insights on healthy weight management for midlife women.
My Most Important Lessons From Losing 55 Pounds And keeping it off for fifteen years — and counting.
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Seventeen years ago, I was at my heaviest. This came after twenty-plus years of weight cycling through diets and strenuous exercise. Each time, my weight climbed back up with a little extra....
Apr 11, 2025
diets
food processing
how to live
menopause
ozempic
real food
reduce sugar
weight gain
what to eat
The heart of my story is finding a way to love food in a world that can't stop making you afraid of it.
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The through-line of my life is food. It's not fitness or losing weight.
Specifically, it's the pleasure and importance of food without compromising your health.
People often miss that becaus...
Mar 28, 2025
food processing
menopause
ozempic
real food
reduce sugar
weight gain
what to eat
Member question: Why am I so anxious around food?
One of the worst effects of weight cycling (dieting to lose, living to gain) is that it creates deep anxiety around the essential functions of living: being hungry, selecting food, and enjoying mealtime.Â
You know, life.
Member Kathleen wrote beautifully about the effects of a lifetime of turni...
Mar 22, 2025
dieting
food anxiety
food processing
weight gain
weight loss
Member question: Hey Rebecca, can I drink alcohol and have a healthy weight? Part 2 of 2.
Of note: this information is for people who are ~if possible~ trying to balance alcohol with weight loss. It's not intended to address addiction and will be useless on that front.
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In this issue:
Why an operating system is more effective than rules (or apps).
The power of de...
Mar 14, 2025
alcohol
defaults
food processing
keystone habits
reduce sugar
sleep
stomach pain
sugar
weight gain
My favorite reads of the week 🍎
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Some great reads while you observe yourself with alcohol 🍷
Last week, I published part one (of two) on alcohol with some questions to spark curiosity about yourself. This examination is a f...
Mar 07, 2025
food processing
menopause
ozempic
real food
reduce sugar
weight gain
what to eat
Member question: Hey Rebecca, can I drink alcohol and have a healthy weight? This is part 1 of 2.
Of note: this information is for people who are trying to balance alcohol with weight loss. It's not intended to address addiction and will be useless on that front.
Let's get into it
In this issue:
The problem(s) alcohol brings to healthy weight living.
My experience
Three questions to ask yo...
Feb 28, 2025
alcohol
food processing
keystone habits
reduce sugar
sleep
stomach pain
sugar
weight gain
I worked on this framework for four years.
I hated dieting. That part, you probably know.
But why? It wasn't that I was unwilling to eat differently or even somewhat less. It was the labor diets required (and the attendant joylessness).Â
What's interesting about modern dieting (and the truth is, all diets are modern because the under...
Feb 14, 2025
food processing
food shopping
grocery store
real food
reduce sugar
ultra-processed
weight gain
Member question: Hey Rebecca, how do you handle sugar?
Reducing sugar is necessary for sustained weight loss. It was the first thing I tackled sixteen years ago and remains a cornerstone of my no-diet approach.
I don't care what anyone tells you; sugar is a problem for weight. Decades of calorie counting give the impression that you can skirt the e...
Feb 07, 2025
food processing
reduce sugar
suagr
weight gain
Dismantle your inner diet culture voice–without eating whatever.
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I say dismantle because this is increme...
Jan 31, 2025
diet culture
dieting
weight gain
weight loss
Have you ever asked yourself, "Is this actually a diet?"
It probably is. This edition is devoted to helping you spot one and understand why this matters.
Last week, I taught an in-person cooking class, and one of the young women in attendance told me about her membership in a no-diet weight loss class that, wait for it, has members tracking all their...
Jan 24, 2025
bread
diet culture
dieting
weight gain
weight loss
Member question: do I have to give up grains to stop gaining weight?
Here's the whole question.
After eating “mostly paleo-ish” for 5+ years, I started trying to consume more grains (a variety of whole grains like sprouted wheat, buckwheat, oats, millet, farro, etc, using these in stews/soups, homemade bread & granola).
While my LDL has improved (the main reas...
Jan 17, 2025
bread
food processing
grains
moderate processing
weight gain
What's WHOLE or Unprocessed?
As with most categories, marketing has skewed our thoughts about whole or unprocessed foods.
That's made spotting them harder, but I'm here to help. I spend an enormous amount of time trying to simplify a complex, hazy, and unreliable food system so that you can have what I have–food freedom.
Foo...
Jan 10, 2025
food processing
health
inflammation
pasta
poor diet
rice